You’re on your first date and you feel all the butterflies coming into your stomach; wondering if his fierce look towards you means a good or a bad thing. We have all those uncertainties when we are on a first date, most of the time, we worry ourselves on the little things that happen during that special moment and we miss the good things that should have happened.
Well, it’s understandable that we all want to play guru; we think that we knew what our date meant when he tries to touch his lips while you talk – but do you really understand his moves or you’re basing it on your own perspective? Put your gut-feel into test and see if you could understand “the moves”.
Here are the answers from men themselves, what do their moves mean on first dates.
We do Dress to Impress
Contrary to what women thought, even men tidies up to impress their date. If you see them all neat and impressive, then he had thrown an effort to look good on your eyes. Men said that if a woman gets them to dress even just a level neater than how they usually are, then he’s into you.
The First Impression
How did he approach you? Was he giving you a “meh” kind of feels like he wants to be on other places than to spend that day with you? Men decoded that when they see the woman they like, they would feel shy or blushy but never tired nor lazy – so when he’s so weak towards you, it doesn’t mean he’s overwhelmed by your beauty, it actually might mean the opposite.
Lifting Eyebrows while You Talk
When women do the brow lifting while men talk, it might mean a bad thing, but as confessed by men; when they lift their brows while you talk it means they are trying to get a wider view of something that captivated them. You might have said something that is adorable but they need to contain themselves or you just simply fascinate them and it’s making them felt giddy.
Is he rocking back and forth? Before you over-react, make sure that you’re not triggering him to do so; ask yourself, are you intimidating him? Are you being too cocky? Or you’re too heavy to handle. Men said that sometimes when women are getting out of their boxes it could mean two things, they’ll be too real or unimaginable. Though they said there is an exception – when men had taken a glass or two of alcohol, then rocking back and forth needs no explaining at all.
Fidgeting on His Seat
Turning or squirming on his seat? It may mean that he is hiding something; it might be a cue that he’s getting sexually excited or he is in a situation that makes him want to run away. But how could you know which is which? Look for other signs – look in to his eyes and you’ll find the answer.
The Hair Fix
Just like how women would fix their hair when they want to look good for someone, men also do that with the same intention. However, how they’d fix their hair could mean another thing. If he fixes his hair with his attention focused towards you and is smiling, it means he wants your attention. If he is fixing it as he approach you or as you are approaching, it means he’s worried about how he looks and how’d you see him; telling him that he looks great would give him a tiny spark of confidence.
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Playing the Mime Game
Speechless? Well, the thing is, when men is having a hard time to express his likeness, he uses his hands to send the signals. When men does this, it means he is really trying to get connected with you, he wanted to keep talking but due to some reasons he can’t just pick a word and say something. These men are good communicators; they’ll try to tell you what they wanted to say even if they’re out of words.
Is he one of those jokes who love to stare at you with their legs wide apart? If you’re into that type of relationships then you’re good to go, but experts says, if you want a serious, decent, not for one night kind of relationship then you would need to run. These men won’t settle for stare or a kiss goodnight – you know they want something more than that and that’s actually the only thing they wanted. A man who is in to you would act to be likeable to keep you; they will not do anything that would creep you out.